ENGAGING THOUGHTS...

From the editor's desk

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A little over a decade ago, I learned something new about an American wedding tradition. In the antebellum south, slave marriages, though not recognized by law, represented a new beginning and were tremendously important to the slaves. Yet, slave weddings were very simplistic. The couple grasped hands, said a brief silent prayer for their new union and jumped over a broom into holy matrimony. Just that simple and easy. No caterers, bands, florists, linens or flatware! Much has changed since then.

The days of jumping the broom are over. Planning today's weddings can be a time consuming and colossal project. From setting the date to choosing your attendants to trimming your guest list-- the planning never ends. And a little advice can go a long way. That's why I hope this newsletter can make the planning process at least slightly easier. Our Vendor Spotlight section showcases some of best wedding professionals in the tri-state area. You have set a date and you want to be sure it goes according to schedule. A timeline is a must. To stay on target with planning, review our wedding checklist. And for your etiquette questions, there's Popping the Question.

More important than your wedding day is your married life. In planning for the wedding; remember prepare for your marriage. In the days leading up to your wedding, consider your new status and what it means for the both of you. Openly discuss your financial objectives, the future, family planning and career goals. In the end, taking these small steps is far more important than choosing the right florist.

Here's to your future!